There is a peculiar guilt that slinks in like smoke through the cracks of our hearts when we dare to laugh, when we dare to dance, when we dare to taste the sweetness of life in a world ablaze with grief.
We scroll headlines of war and famine, political collapse and cultural decay, and somewhere in the midst of it all, we sip coffee with friends, we fall in love, we let music wash over us like waves, and we wonder if it is wrong to be so full of joy when the planet groans under the weight of sorrow.
That tension is the hidden undertow of modern existence: the struggle between lament and laughter, mourning and merriment.
Joy, in such times, feels almost like an act of defiance. It feels like lighting a candle in a windstorm, fragile and trembling, yet defiantly bright. And in that flickering flame, we sense both holiness and hubris. The question that gnaws is simple but sharp: is my happiness a betrayal of the suffering around me?
I’ve felt it myself. I’ve walked through a park on a radiant spring afternoon, blossoms exploding like divine fireworks, children laughing with voices uncorrupted by cynicism, and suddenly—like a blade—I am struck by the thought that somewhere, someone is burying a child, somewhere a refugee is starving, somewhere a soul is shackled in despair. And my laughter chokes in my throat.
But Christianity does not call us to drown our joy in guilt. Rather, it sanctifies joy as a necessary companion to suffering. The Apostle Paul, who knew beatings, shipwrecks, and betrayal, still wrote, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). To rejoice is not to deny suffering—it is to testify that suffering is not the final word.
The guilt we feel arises not from Christ but from culture. Modern media saturates us with every tragedy in real time, compressing the pain of the world into the palm of our hands. We were never built to carry such omniscience; it makes us gods without divinity, cursed with the burden of knowing everything yet incapable of healing everything. And so, when we find a moment of happiness, it feels like theft, like we are hoarding light while the masses dwell in shadows.
Yet joy is not theft. Joy is fuel. Without it, despair would calcify our souls into stone. The joy of the Lord is called our strength for a reason (Nehemiah 8:10). It is the oxygen we breathe in the suffocating smoke of sin and sorrow.
Still, the enemy whispers: how dare you smile while the world weeps? That whisper masquerades as compassion, but in truth, it is condemnation. True compassion does not strip us of delight; it deepens it, transforming joy from shallow escapism into sacred sustenance.
Consider this: if the world is indeed as broken as it appears, then our laughter is not frivolous, it is prophetic. To laugh, to love, to sing is to declare that evil does not own the soundtrack of history. Joy is not ignorance; it is resistance.
And so, yes, there will be days when the weight of the world should drive us to fasting, to lament, to solidarity with those in sorrow. The Psalms are soaked in grief and groaning, proof that holy lament has its place in the liturgy of life. But interwoven with lament is always praise. The Bible never demands that we choose between them. It invites us into the paradox: tears streaming down faces that still break into song.
I’ve come to realize that guilt for joy is a distortion of empathy. It is empathy turned inward, paralyzed, poisoned. Real empathy does not demand that we erase our smiles; it demands that we extend them, that we carry our joy into the broken spaces where laughter has long been exiled. Joy shared becomes mercy multiplied.
It is not an easy lesson. It feels easier, somehow more righteous, to sit in sackcloth and ashes perpetually. But perpetual mourning is not holy—it is despair disguised as devotion. Christ did not only weep at Lazarus’ tomb; He also feasted at tables, laughed with friends, turned water into wine at a wedding. To follow Him is to embrace both cross and celebration, both Good Friday and Easter morning.
In fact, our guilt for joy may expose an idol we didn’t know we carried: the belief that our sorrow can save the world. But sorrow saves no one. Christ alone saves, and He invites us to live not as martyrs of misery but as heralds of hope.
The world does not need more guilt-ridden saints hiding their happiness. It needs radiant believers whose joy burns so brightly it exposes the bankruptcy of despair. It needs Christians who can kneel in ashes but rise to dance, who can stand at gravesides and still proclaim resurrection.
Joy is not a betrayal of the suffering—it is a balm for it. The laughter of the righteous is a melody that tells the world the story is not over, that beyond the darkness there is dawn, beyond the ashes there is beauty.
When I feel guilty for smiling while the world screams, I remind myself that the very presence of joy in such a time is proof of God’s Spirit still moving, still igniting sparks in the abyss. To hide that joy is to hide evidence of His kingdom. To share it is to plant seeds of heaven in hell’s soil.
Perhaps the real sin is not that we rejoice but that we hoard our rejoicing, that we confine it to our private gardens instead of scattering it like wildflowers on barren ground.
So, no—I will not apologize for joy. I will not apologize for the sunrise, for the song, for the small kindness that makes a heart light again. I will not apologize for laughing in the face of despair, for joy is not denial but declaration: a declaration that the world is broken but not abandoned, bleeding but not beyond redemption.
Yes, the world is bad—so bad it sometimes takes the breath out of my lungs. But the gospel is good—so good it returns breath like resurrection. Between those two truths, joy finds its rightful place, not as luxury but as liturgy, not as guilt but as grace.
And maybe, just maybe, in our unabashed joy, the world will catch a glimpse of the God who dared to enter its sorrow, who dared to turn mourning into dancing, who dared to say that even in the shadow of death, joy has the final word.
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